Conan Gray, Heather → Bangerz N Bopz

In the 67^th edition of Bangerz N Bopz (2026), we highlight “Heather,” performed by pop singer-songwriter Conan Gray.

[nx_dropcap]B[/nx_dropcap]ring on the bold, fierce songs! Bangerz N Bopz serves up background info and insights into songs across various styles, especially those that raise eyebrows and/or stir the pot.  Featured records can be classic or brand new. In the 67^th edition of Bangerz N Bopz (2026), we break down “Heather” performed by Conan Gray. 

[nx_pullquote]“Walks by / What a sight for sore eyes / Brighter than the blue sky / She’s got you mesmerized while I die.”[/nx_pullquote] What a bummer for Conan Gray! Ugh! What isn’t a bummer is “Heather,” the 10^th track from his 2020 debut album, Kid Krow. “Heather” marks one of the best moments from the platinum-certified album. Speaking of Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) certifications, “Heather” was certified multi-platinum.  The multi-platinum status is impressive considering the song failed to reach the top 40 on the pop charts – it settled for number 46 on the Billboard Hot 100. Gray composed a gem, produced by Dan Nigro.

On “Heather,” Conan Gray is wrongfully mad at Heather.  Why??? The person he likes doesn’t like him (“Only if you knew how much I liked you”) but likes Heather (“But I watch your eyes as she…”), so he dislikes Heather.  But should he? “But how could I hate her? She’s such an angel,” he asserts, and continues, “But then again, kinda wish she were dead…” It’s illogical, but very relatable, particularly the chorus:

“Why would you ever kiss me?

I’m not even half as pretty

You gave her your sweater, it’s just polyester

But you like her better

(I wish I were Heather).”

Ultimately, “Heather” is a superb pop song that encompasses unrequited love and jealousy.  Gray sings beautifully with incredible authenticity and sincerity.