In the 92nd edition of After Dark (2022), we explore the naughty, risqué, & sexual vibes behind, “Wet Dreamz” by J. Cole.
[otw_shortcode_dropcap label=”I” size=”large” border_color_class=”otw-no-border-color” shadow=”shadow” square=”square”]nnuendo? More like full-on sexual vibes! Welcome to After Dark 🕛 🌃, a column featuring songs that are best suited for nighttime, specifically, the bedroom. Many of the records featured here raise eyebrows, as well as the temperature! These After Dark tunes focus on the universal three-letter word: SEX. The dark records gracing After Dark are old and new alike, with all genres of music welcome. In the 92nd edition of After Dark (2022), we explore the naughty, risqué, & sexual vibes behind, 🎵 “Wet Dreamz” by 🎙 J. Cole.[/otw_shortcode_dropcap]
Theme & Lyrics ✍
“Man, it wasn’t nothin’ like the first time / She was in my math class / Long hair, brown skin, with a fat ass.” On 🎵 “Wet Dreamz,” a highlight from 💿 2014 Forest Hills Drive, 🎙 J. Cole bluntly depicts his sexual awakening. As the title suggests, his awakening includes those pubescent occurrences known as wet dreams (nocturnal emissions, if you want to be technical). Beyond those dreams, Cole raps about losing his virginity, and he does not spare details.
“I’m thinkin’ how she rides on it
If she sits on it, if she licks on it
Make it hard for me to stand up.”
Like teen boys worldwide, J. Cole is horny AF. Honestly, there are few men, once they begin their sexual maturation, who at some point, do not think with their other head. Anyways, while he pretends he is experienced in order to impress his crush, ultimately, he is a clueless virgin.
“Wet dreamin’, thinkin’ that I’m smashin’, but I’m sleepin’
I want it bad, and I ain’t never been obsessed before
She wrote a note that said, ‘you ever had sex before?’
Damn…
And I ain’t never did this before, no…”
How does an inexperienced J. Cole educate himself on sex? Pornography, fueled by sexual fantasies. There are better avenues, obviously, but you would be hard pressed to find a teen boy who did not indulge in smut at some point – facts!
Final Thoughts 💭
Ah, songs about wet dreams are always intriguing. J. Cole delivers one of the best, perfectly capturing an adolescent, pubescent sexual experience. Rap tackles sex frequently, but Cole take a much different avenue which makes 🎵 “Wet Dreamz” a truly surprising banger.
Appears in 🔻:
- Songs Where Musicians Were Sexually Awakened
- These 13 Songs Depict Vivid Dreams
- 11 Songs Fueled by Fantasy
🎙 J. Cole • 💿 2014 Forest Hills Drive • 🏷 Roc Nation • 🗓 2014
J. Cole, “Wet Dreamz”: After Dark 🕛 🌃 No. 92 (2022) [📷: Brent Faulkner, cottonbro, Foundry Co, John lucas, The Musical Hype, Pexels, Pixabay, Roc Nation, Tazz Vaughn]

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