In the 23rd edition of LGBTQ Bopz ๐๐ถ (2023), we highlight the song, โF.A.G.โ performed by Lebanese pop artist, Joe Daccache. ย
Be prepared to #SLAY! LGBTQ Bopz ๐๐ถ embraces, highlights, and celebrates singles and tracks by LGBTQIA musicians or allies.ย In this column, we provide background and insight into the respective musician(s), as well as analyze + go gaga over the decadent bops being served up.ย Furthermore, when the music dictates deeper, more transcendent discussion, we ensure the point is articulated to the fullest.ย All styles of music are welcome while the BOPZ can be classics or brand-spanking new. So, without further ado, in the 23rd edition of LGBTQ Bopz ๐๐ถ (2023), we highlight ๐ต โF.A.G.โ performed by ๐ Joe Daccache.
As a teacher, I am programmed to correct slurs, particularly the godawful, homophobic f-slur.ย Just typing the word faggot is triggering. Hopefully, you have never been called or referred to by that terrible word; hopefully, you never will. But, if you have, likely you remember the incident as clear as day.ย For me, it was during college, in the mid-aughts, when an ex-roommate assumed I was asleep, while on the phone with friends, referred to me by the word.ย I will NEVER forget that โ Iโm a true Virgo โ๏ธ. ย I say that to say, itโs NEVER appropriate to refer to anyone by that term, plus, it just doesnโt sound good or nice. Sticks and stones may break my words, but words will never hurt me is the motto, but still, mean things bother you. ย That leads into turning a negative situation, experienced by many gays, into something positive.ย Back during Pride ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Month in 2021, Lebanese singer/songwriter ๐ Joe Daccache released the empowering ๐ต โF.A.G.โ. He DOES NOT utter the degrading f-slur, but rather uses the short slang as an acronym worth supporting: โFabulous and Gay.โ
The handsome Joe Daccache is onto something with โF.A.G.โ.ย His voice sounds utterly fantastic (slay King), particularly when he ascends into his upper register.ย โF.A.G.โ features picturesque production and rhythmic, tuneful melodies.ย Thereโs sweetness despite the fact that it is clear that Daccache has experience his own share of homophobia. โHey, donโt you know when you call me by that name / I donโt let it throw me โ Let the bullets rain,โ he sings in the first verse, adding, โIโve been through all this pain, but this is just how I was made.โ Amen, Joe! In the brief second verse, Daccache asserts, โUnashamed of my creation / Turn it up, now go on to say it.โ So many times, there is ample shame associated with being a member of the LGBTQ+ population, regardless which letter characterizes you. Gay Surinamese-bred musician๐ XILLAN spoke of ridding of shame on ๐ต โOh Happy Dayโ.ย Rather than cry and suffer, Daccache encourages us to be true to self: โIโm loving all this energy / I never felt so fucking free / I know that Iโm fabulous and gay.โ Donโt let anybody break you with their words, let alone their narrow-minded view of a world that is big enough for everybody! ๐ต โF.A.G.โ speaks volumes, and Iโm sad my first experience with this gem was two years after its release. Better late than never!
๐ Joe Daccache โข ๐ต โF.A.G.โ โข ๐ท Joe Daccache โข ๐ 2021
Joe Daccache, F.A.G.: LGBTQ Bopz ๐๐ถ No. 23 (2023) [๐ท: Brent Faulkner/ The Musical Hype; Joe Daccache; Anna Shvets, Monstera, Polina Tankilevitch, RODNAE Productions, Spencer Cooper, Uriel Mont via Pexels; Jim, Kurious via Pixabay; Hugo Herrera on Unsplash]