12 Paraphilic, Fetish Songs | Playlist 🎧

1. Luke Bryan, “Light it Up”

What Makes You Country • Capitol Nashville • 2017

Paraphilia: Objectophilia (Object Sexuality)

The first paraphilia on the list is objectophilia aka object sexuality. Dr. Mark D. Griffiths states that:  “Object sexuality refers to those individuals who develop deep emotional and/or romantic attachments to (and have relationships with) specific inanimate objects or structures.” Of Luke Bryan single, “Light it Up,” Saving Country Music states that there is “undeniable objectophilia.” It should be noted that Bryan is infatuated with a particular lady, which is justifiable. However, he essentially develops a ‘relationship’ with his phone because he’s become obsessed with what his lady is doing.

“I get so neurotic about it baby
‘Cause I know you’re reading your phone
I can’t help from going crazy
Thinking you might not be all alone
I wake up, I check it, I show and I check it
I feel the buzz in my truck
And I almost wreck it
I always got it on me
Just in case you want me
So, if you’re looking for my love
Then light it up.” 

2. Britney Spears, “3”

The Singles Collection • RCA / Jive • 2009

Paraphilia: Troilism 

Troilism is described by Psychology Dictionary as a “carnal activity where three people are engaged.” Naturally, a threesome comes to mind.  There are parallels between the two, but troilism seems to focus on the troilist fulfilling their sexual desires.  Regardless, the Britney Spears no. 1 hit “3” comes to mind when finding a song that somewhat fulfills the definition of the paraphilia.  Given the selfishness of troilism, Britney Spears ensures at the beginning on the chorus that she’s the beneficiary.

“1, 2, 3
Not only you and me
Got 180º, and I’m caught in between
Counting 1, 2, 3
Peter, Paul and Mary
Getting down with 3P
Everybody loves counting.” 

3. Trina, “Look Back at Me”

Ft. Killer Mike

Still Da Baddest • Slip N Slide • 2008

Paraphilia: Urolagnia; Narratophilia; Olfactophilia/Osmolagnia; Nasophilia

Sigh, there is so much freakiness involved in “Look Back at Me,” one of the dirtiest songs EVER.  Khia definitely had some filth with “My Neck, My Back,” but Trina hold her own.  She’s assisted by Killer Mike, who doesn’t clean things up, but rather, makes a mess of his own:  “Gave her mayonnaise on the face pearl necklace.” But staying focused, pearl necklaces aren’t the priority here. Rather, there are cases of urolagnia, narratophilia, olfactophilia (osmolagnia), and nasophilia.

Urolagnia naturally deals with sexual arousal via urine. An uncommon-common example is the golden shower.  Interestingly, golden showers have impacted pop culture. The American Pie series comes to mind.  Trina can’t resist mentioning it.

“Licky, licky, licky licky, licky for an hour
I’mma make it rain for you, here’s a golden shower.”

Narratophilia in simplest terms in dirty talk.  There are ample examples of dirty talk throughout “Look Back at Me” that’s sexually explicit.

“I got an ass so big like the sun
Hope you got a mile for a dick I wanna run
Slap it in my face, shove it down my throat
Nigga, where you blunt? I can make this pussy smoke...
Put this pussy in your jaws now, smack
Like it’s Thanksgiving and it ain’t coming back
Collard greens neck bones, nigga chew this ass.”

Olfactophilia/Osmolagnia are touched upon as well.  The paraphilia can be described as “carnal interest in and stimulation by body odors, particularly from the genitalia region.”

“Smell it like a flower, my pussy is a rose.”

Finally, there’s a reference to nasophilia, a paraphilia dealing with the nose:

“Come a little closer, I wanna f🤬🤬k your nose.”

4. Pretty Ricky, “On the Hotline”

Late Night Special • Atlantic • 2007

Paraphilia: Narratophilia

Pretty Ricky have narratophila locked down on “On the Hotline.” The sex is pronounced from the start.

“It’s five in the mornin’
And I’m up havin’ phone sex witchu you...
And now I’m on the hotline
Over here lustin’ for you…
Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me…
Let’s have a little phone sex baby, on the hotline.”

There’s more of course.  Reference is made to masturbation, nudity, orgasm, size, and undies.

5. Ying Yang Twins, “Pull My Hair”

U.S.A. – United State of Atlanta • TVT • 2005

Paraphilia(s): Narratophilia; Trichophilia 

“I’m a hit from the back while I’m pulling your hair / You climbing up the wall while I’m pulling your hair…” While Ying Yang Twins don’t check off as many paraphilia as Trina, they cover narratophilia once more (“And she like it when a n*gga be pulling her hair / Talking nasty to her ass while I’m pulling her hair”), as well as trichophilia. Right Diagnosis describes trichophilia a “Sexual urges or arousal involving hair.” There have been a number of songs in popular music that focus on the importance of hair when it comes to sex.  That said, Ying Yang Twins take it to the next level and seem to be hardcore practitioners of this particular paraphilia.

“Now that I got you in the bed, I’m gonna pull yo hair
Snatch yo ass up by the head, I’m gonna pull yo hair
Pull my hair (pull it hard) Pull my hair (pull it tight) …
F*ck me daddy, spank me daddy…”

6. Rammstein, “Mein Teil”

Reise, Reise • Republic • 2004

Paraphilia: Vorarephilia 

“Because you are what you eat / And you know what it is.” Armin Meiwes, a native of Rotenberg, Germany, killed and ate a man. Eating human flesh makes him a cannibal. Eating human flesh makes him a cannibal.  The killing part, coupled with the sexual pleasure, now creates a new monster, vorarephilia. Just let that bit of info about Mr. Meiwes sink in. Even more screwed up is the fact that his victim, Bernd Brandes, agreed to be eaten and killed.

On “Mein Teil,” Rammstein sings about Meiwes. One particular section of “Mein Teil” highlights the eating of, he penis, specifically his victim, Brandes’ penis.  Yes, it’s too much information, but apparently, both men wanted to partake in this most disgusting experience.

“The blunt blade good and right
I'm bleeding hard and I'm sick
I also have to fight with the impotence
I continue eating cramps
Is so well seasoned
And so beautifully flamboyant
And so lovingly served on porcelain...”

“Mein Teil” also appears on a separate playlist devoted to Meiwes.

7. The Police, “Every Breath You Take”

Synchronicity • A&M • 1983

Paraphilia: Voyeurism

Ah voyeurism, one of the most commonly understood paraphilias. According to the Encyclopedia of Mental Disorders: “Voyeurism is a psychosexual disorder in which a person derives sexual pleasure and gratification from looking at the naked bodies and genital organs or observing the sexual acts of others.”

So, why exactly is the beloved The Police classic “Every Breath You Take” make this list? While “Every Breath You Take” isn’t nearly as freaky or perverted as most of the songs on this particular playlist, there is a “creepy” factor about the lyrics.  Sting comes off a stalker on this Grammy-winning classic, much like voyeur who is secretly watching his or her unsuspecting victim.

“Every single day
Every word you say
Every game you play
Every night you stay
I’ll be watching you...
Every move you make
Every vow you break
Every smile you fake
Every claim you stake
I’ll be watching you.”

8. Asher Roth, “Rub on Your Titties”

The Greenhouse Effect Vol. 1 (Mixtape) • 2008

Paraphilia: Lactophilia

Charming title to the Asher Roth song, right? The “I Love College” rapper doesn’t leave much to the imagination with “Rub on Your Titties.”  Even so, in at least one instance, Roth goes behind the hand action to a fetish – a paraphilia if you will.

“I’m in the strip club staring at some tatas
Oooh yeah, I want that, give me, give me mama
Oh yeah, that’s right, put it in my face girl
Where’s all the breast milk? Let me get a taste girl (Mmmmm) It’s an interest, more like a fetish.”

The fetish/paraphilia is known as lactophilia or erotic lactation.  According to The Free Dictionary, erotic lactation is: “Sexual eroticism that hinges on breastfeeding or sucking on a woman’s breasts.” Clearly, that’s exactly what Asher Roth has in mind on “Rub on Your Titties,” among other things. 

9. Saturday Astrology, “Sex with a Mannequin”

Sonar • CD Baby • 2012

Paraphilia: Agalmatophilia; Objectophilia (Object Sexuality)

New York electronic, alternative rock band Saturday Astrology deserves somecredit.  They are one of few bands or artists to write a song that encompasses agalmatophilia. Agalmatophilia, as defined by Dr. Mark D. Griffiths in Psychology Today is:

“…A sexual paraphilia in which individuals derive sexual arousal from an attraction to (usually nude) statues, dolls, mannequins and/or other similar body shaped objects.  It is also part of a wider condition known as ‘object sexuality.’”

“Sex with a Mannequin” is filled with sexual references, all of which focus on objectification as opposed to traditional sex per se.

“Watching as I wane
Through the browser pane
With all that’s bare
You think I’d care
Follow, follow, follow?
No porn is a simple save
Swallow, swallow, swallow
You’ll crave – you’ll crave...
Turned fetish freak in bed
Try deviant instead
It isn’t rare
When the wide web’s addled on your hutch...
The only thing you win
Sex with a mannequin
Left to your chair
And a glowing, glowing, glowing square!!!”

10. Guttural Secrete, “Coprophilic Asphyxia”

Nourishing the Spoil • Brutal Bands • 2013

Paraphilia(s): Coprophilia, Asphyxiophilia

Guttural Secrete. What a name.  That said, seems like a fitting one for a death metal band.  Guttural Secrete cover some suspect stuff musically, as evidenced by “Coprophilic Asphyxia,” a colorful song from an album entitled Reek of Pubescent Despoilment.  That some twisted stuff.  It goes deeper, as Guttural Secrete cover two paraphilias in the process: coprophilia and asphyxiophilia.

Dealing with the coprophilia first, Encyclopedia.com describes it as:

“…The condition of desire for sexual gratification and sexual arousal derived from the smell, taste, or sight of feces or from the act of defecation.  It is commonly referred to by the slang term scat.”

Yep, Guttural Secrete definitely have the scat covered:

“Obsessing over piss and shit
Fecal orgy shit stained I sit
Gagging from the stench so vile
Suffocating with a smile
Puking on myself, regurgitating fecal matter
Feels like razor blades carving up my throat.”

As for the asphyxiophilia, it is a sexual masochism disorder, according to the US National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health.  They go on to say:

“Asphyxiophilia is one of the most dangerous conditions associated to SMD and is characterized by the use of various strategies to achieve the level of oxygen depletion need to enhance sexual arousal, such as self-strangulation, hanging, suffocations with an object like a plastic bag over the head, chest compression, use of gas or volatile solvents, or a combination of these, up to a point of loss of consciousness.”

In the case of “Coprophilic Asphyxia,” the feces are the cause of the asphyxiation.

“Blood clots begin to form in my veins from the blockage of brown
Losing oxygen to my brain as my body shuts itself down
Laid out my cadaver is lifeless
Covered in a pool of my own shit.”

11. Marc Almond, “The Exhibitionist”

Varieté • Cherry Red • 2010

Paraphilia: Exhibitionism

“You’re the narcissist / An exhibitionist / You always understood / Ordinary is bad / Strange is good.” Marc Almond perfectly tackles exhibitionism on “The Exhibitionist.” Psychology Today describes exhibitionism as follows:

“Exhibitionist disorder is a condition marked by the urge, fantasy, or behavior of exposing one’s genitals to non-consenting people, particularly strangers.”

Almond covers the public nudity explicitly, as he describes the nonconformist person perfectly.

“Stand naked to the public
A nude epiphany
You’re inter-sex and outer-sex
Extreme androgyny
So come all you fabulous monsters
And all you glamorous freaks
Total exhibitionism is the
Nature of the beast.”

12. Low Season, “Frotteurism”

Weather Maker – EP • Low Season • 2017

Paraphilia: Frotteurism

The best – arguably the worst – comes last.  Frotteurism is no joke.  Psychology Today states:

“Frotteurism is the act of touching or rubbing up against another person in a sexual manner without their consent. It is one of several criminal paraphilic (sexually arousing) disorders) …The problem is most often seen in young, seemingly shy males between the ages of 15 and 25.”

Australian band Low Season go straight for the perverted nature of the act on “Frotteurism.”

“Rub your brain against my leg, masturbate to a house and fence
Home life dream, I want all to see the stains on our sheets and our credit history
These thoughts run wild (Past lives, you’re mine)
These thoughts are mine (Past lives, you’re mine).”

Those lyrics are actually clever, considering Low Season isn’t really focused on the act specifically. The band goes on, managing to mention more sexual terminology in the process.

“Masturbate to our success, a trophy wife inside my head
A sink full of dishes and two shit kids
And I can’t cum ‘til the kitchen’s refitted
These thoughts run wild (Past lives, you’re mine)
These thoughts run wild (Past lives, you’re mine).”

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